Duty calls, whether you like it or not
“ I can’t say anything till I see an ultrasound, a thyroid
report & a blood test report. Come next week with all the reports. I am available every Tuesday from 11:30 to
12:30pm. Take an earlier appointment, say, at around 11:30, so that I can spend
more time with you”
My eyes travelled from the doctor’s green-blue eyes to the
clock. It was 11:45 am, and I had been
in the room for exactly 7 minutes, out of which 4 were spent with the doctor
speaking to her intern, and the remaining three with her ‘listening’ to me
speak, punctuated by vibrations of her phone, and she had reached a conclusion.
Either she was really good, or she didn’t find me interesting. Either way, I
forked out Rs 500 to the dour looking cashier seated very conveniently outside
and left, not one bit cured.
The very same
evening, I battled the rain and walked to my family doctor, who patiently
listened to everything I said, prescribed pills and asked me to come back after
three days for a follow up. Within three days I was back to normal, and my
doctor simply smiled and told me to cut down on caffeine.
But wait, am not quite finished. If I had seen doctors who
were money minded, I had also seen doctors who were more worried about me than
myself, and not in a good way.. A government doctor I knew packed me off to the
hospital for an “eye operation” because she predicted that a boil on my eyelid
was “ poisonous” and would make me blind within three days. That day my father
brought home a distraught daughter who was convinced that she would be blind by the next morning. He got up to see no boil, and a slightly guilty daughter. It has
been over ten years since that happened, and there is nothing on my eyelid
anymore, except a drop or two of sweat.
So it really didn’t come as a surprise when I saw so many
reports of children dying due to medical negligence. It’s getting difficult to believe doctors anymore - if they find it difficult to hear us, imagine how difficult it is for us to tell them about things happening in our bodies. Hippocratic Oath, empathy, sympathy, everything just goes straight out of the window. Running for tests, necessary or unnecessary, taking medicines,
unnecessary or necessary has just become the order of the day. Who listens to patients anymore?
There was a time, a time maybe in the era of my now 70 year old GP’s, where
doctors were not merely people who handed medicines, but who also listened to
what you had to say. They were people whom one took into confidence, who they
entrusted with their secrets and who, no matter what, would always do what was
beneficial for them and not for their bank accounts.
Let alone doctors, no profession is noble anymore. Teaching
was a noble profession, people said, yet all teachers seem to be caring about
is how many tuition they should take in order to rake up more money.
Journalism was a calling, they said, yet there is hardly any news today that
benefits the common man without dividing him by his religion or political
choice. More than half of the people in
a newsroom are either stuck in the job, just
there for the heck of it or for the power of being the press. Some are even
there just to pull the others down, establishing their supremacy & displaying
their enviable talent of sycophancy.
Maybe it’s
time for all of us to get a reality check the size of Antarctica. Maybe it’s time to prioritize. Maybe its time
for us to think beyond our bank accounts, beyond our salaries, beyond petty
office politics and really work. Maybe it’s time for us doctors to focus less
on becoming chartered accountants and more of healers, for teachers to remember
that the future of the country is under their tutelage and for the media to
remember that stories come from people and that listening rather than shouting,
is always an asset. Just let’s not forget what our duty is. We may not like
being a doctor, or a journalist or even an engineer, but if we have a duty
towards something, that must be done, fully & perfectly.
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